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How can I stop him ... ?


Can she "take me to the cleaners" ... ?


Can I stop him getting into the house ... ?


I am an unmarried dad,  can my ex partner stop me seeing our children ... ?


He says I have a month to get out of the house ... ?


He is taking our children to the pub with him ... ?

My husband has stopped paying maintenance how can I stop him seeing the children? 

 The Court would take a dim view of any such attempt. There may be many reasons for the payments stopping. Without something else the best interests of the children may remain in their father maintaining contact with them. This is a matter for the CSA. The fact that the money has stopped being paid is significant, because if there is no good reason for it, questions may be raised about his commitment to the children in a general sense.

Can she "take me to the cleaners".. ?

I’ve been seeing another woman and she has just been told she’s pregnant. I am the father. My wife has said she is going to "take me to the cleaners". Does the fact that I have committed adultery mean that she’s going to get everything?

No. Conduct provided it doesn’t devalue matrimonial property is not relevant. Adultery is not a crime and you are no worse off from a financial point of view when it comes to the division of the matrimonial property. The fact that you have a new dependant may be taken into account if your wife claims maintenance from you.

 

Can I stop him getting into the house . ?

My husband and I separated a few months ago. We are both named on the Title Deeds to the house. After he left he got a flat of his own. He comes round a lot drunk and shouts and screams at me about getting back together but I don’t want that. I’m afraid of him now and the way he is behaving. Is there anything I can do to stop him getting into the house?

Yes, depending on the circumstances. An exclusion order must be granted by the court if it appears necessary for your protection or of any child of the family from conduct by your spouse. In certain cases however the court is prevented from granting the order for example where the house is used as part of a business or the other spouse has offered to provide you with alternative accommodation.

Unmarried dad, contact with my children... ?

I never married my children’s mother. We recently separated and I’ve heard that I don’t have any rights. Can I force her to let me see them?

If your ex will not agree to letting you have contact or refuses to even discuss the matter with you then you should see a solicitor about writing to her. If she still refuses to let you see them you may have no option other than to proceed with an action for declarator of parental rights and a contact order. You do not have any rights unless she is prepared to enter an agreement with you about them or you are declared entitled to them by the court.

 

He says "I have a month to get out of the house" ... ?

The Title in our house is in my husband’s name only. He has left to stay with another woman and I’m looking after the kids. He said that I’ve got a month to get out before he tells the estate agent to put the house up for sale. Do I have any rights?

Yes. Since you are not named in the Title Deeds you are referred to as the "non-entitled spouse" and have certain rights. Under the Matrimonial Homes Act 1981 you have a right to occupy the matrimonial home and if you’re husband tries to sell up you will require to be consulted.

 

He is taking our children to the pub with him ... ?

My ex partner has a contact order from the court which says that he is to have the kids overnight with him two weekends out of every four. Recently when they have come back from their dad’s they have told me that he has been taking them to the pub with him in the afternoon and leaves them with a relative at night while he goes back to the pub. I don’t think that he’s interested in them any more. Can I do anything about this?

Yes. See your solicitor about getting the case back into court. The parental right of contact, like any other parental right must be exercised in such a way that it is conducive to the children’s best interests. Given that there has been a change in circumstances since the order was made the court may be prepared to vary it.

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